On this week’s episode of The Baggage Reclaim Periods, my brother Richard and I replicate on our childhood and the way repeatedly questioning ‘Is there one thing about me?’ affected our sense of self and dealing lives. We talk about how (and why) our sense of worthiness has been intertwined with our skilled success and private relationships. This trustworthy dialog unpacks emotions of abandonment, rejection, and the lifelong wrestle of feeling ‘good-enough,’ highlighting the significance of acknowledging and therapeutic from our previous to reclaim our current.
IN THIS EPISODE…
- 01:05 Childhood reflections
- 02:19 The impression of rejection
- 03:27 Struggles with self-worth
- 03:56 Navigating relationships
- 06:02 Household dynamics
- 07:08 Coping mechanisms
- 21:02 Individuals-pleasing kinds
- 24:42 Office challenges
- 27:47 Residing as outsiders
- 28:26 Transferring to Dublin
- 30:38 First day in school
- 31:57 Protecting components
- 33:29 Childhood trauma and grownup responses
- 35:50 Dealing with anxiousness and vulnerability
- 42:39 Reframing failure and self-talk
- 45:54 Acknowledging the previous
- 52:16 Remaining ideas and assets
LINKS MENTIONED AND RECOMMENDED RESOURCES
- Ep 280: Secrets and techniques, Lies, and Coming Out
- Ep. 222: They’re simply not that into you?
- Coping with Somebody Who Blows Sizzling and Chilly: Is It Value It?
- Ep 194: The Self-Sabotage of Overgiving, Over-Duty, Individuals Pleasing, Perfectionism and Overthinking
- Ep 276: New Yr, New No, and Recognising the Darkish Facet of Individuals Pleasing
- The Pleasure of Saying No
- Are You a Individuals Pleaser? quiz
- Ep 158: It’s Not That You’re Not ‘Good Sufficient’ — You’re Over-Accountable
- Ep 100: Are You Exceeding Your Bandwidth? (You Are Not The Energizer Bunny)
- Ep 121: The Launch & Reduction of Giving Up On Strive-ing
- Ep. 230: Why you’re nonetheless having ideas about that sure somebody or factor (understanding our unconscious)
- Questioning our default tales and fears permits us to ‘replace’
- Ep 243: Revisited-What’s the bags behind it?
- Ep 126: I ‘Failed’, And I’m OK
- Forgiving Me For Abandonment
- Ep 233: Eek, Am I Doing Self-Care Flawed?
- The publication sequence I wrote: I Broke Up With My Mom half one | half two | half three
- Ep 204: Let’s Discuss About Household Estrangement
- Simone thought she was exhausted and burnt-out. However her high-functioning anxiousness was going unnoticed
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